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Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Daily Mood Quotes - January 18, 2012


Daily Mood Quote
Day 243 – January 18, 2012

But just as they did in Philadelphia when they were writing the constitution, sooner or later, you've got to compromise. You've got to start making the compromises that arrive at a consensus and move the country forward.
~Colin Powell

Albert Einstein said, “In a healthy nation there is a kind of dramatic balance between the will of the people and the government, which prevents its degeneration into tyranny.” What do we consider to be a healthy nation today? Last night on the CBS Evening News with Scott Pelley, I listened to a story about a Philadelphia area school district that did not have enough money to make it to the end of the school year. The State Department of Education has promised enough money to make payroll for a month. Then they are right back in the same situation. My husband has a favorite saying for this kind of behavior that is becoming an epidemic, “it's a band-aid on a bullet wound!” and if they are willing to “bail” on one school district, how many others will follow? Also, this position sets precedence and exposes the fundamental problem with the “No Child Left Behind Act.” It takes the most money from the districts that need it most. So, instead of leaving one child behind, thousands are being left behind; about 6000 in this particular case... Brilliant!

So, "now to the crux of the biscuit." Why are school districts underfunded? It's really simple, we have abandoned the fundamental premise that our children come first, always. Partisan politics, “what's in it for me” legislation, the fundamental neglect of the very basics of society, have left us crumbling roads, falling bridges and non-competitive and dilapidated schools; who may have tremendous athletic programs, but no money for arts, math and sciences. What's wrong with this picture? There is no easy answer and I'll admit that: It's all wrapped up in a big messy ball of entitlements, tax loop holes, abatements, and a struggling economy. There is not one clear string you can hold onto that isn't connected to something else. Now, it is kind of like a game of pick-up sticks, you can't move one without affecting another. A house doesn’t crumble in a day, it comes apart with time and neglect and that is what we have done to our children's future. While the past two generations enjoyed credit fueled vacations at Disney World and gorged on cheap imported goods, we have let our house, the place where our children spend there time attempting to learn and grow, fall apart board by board member. We only have ourselves to blame for this. Politicians may rattle on about how our government's budget overages will be paid for by our children, while continuing to approve wasteful self-serving projects, congressional junkets and pork barrels; none of which have anything to do with educating our future generations. Then we let them give themselves raises, again and again and again! To quote the cartoon Pogo “I have seen the enemy and he is us.” A generation that has had the advantage of higher education, forged on the sweat of a determined post-depression generation, has chosen to not pass the torch of American ingenuity and community centered drive to our children; but to leave that flame to flicker and die in a heap of Happy Meal boxes and video games.

I realize that it's hard to put down our own self interests of low taxes and easy patches, that don't solve the problems just cover them up; to turn a blind eye to the future of our nation and hope that some new technology will suddenly “pop up” and fix everything. It won't; especially if we aren't putting in a real effort to “teach our children well” (Thanks Crosby Stills, Nash and Young). Its hard to say; yes I'll put down the remote and think before I vote. It's hard to spend time researching our representative's activities, wade through the rhetoric and attack ads, and let them know we disapprove. It's hard to stand up and say “No more!” (thanks Jim Belushi from The Principal). But, as the late John F. Kennedy, in a voice that powered America into space and helped create all the great innovations we now accept as normal, once said. “...not because they are easy, but because they are hard, because that goal will serve to organize and measure the best of our energies and skills, because that challenge is one that we are willing to accept, one we are unwilling to postpone, and one which we intend to win...” Have we forgotten so soon? None of our best future happens without educating our young people, for they will become what we show them today. Tune in tomorrow for “the rest of the story” (a special thanks and “tip of the hat” to the late Paul Harvey).

How will you view “tomorrow” today?

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Monday, October 10, 2011

Daily Mood Quotes - October 10, 2011

 
Daily Mood Quote
Day 160 – October 10, 2011

I like to listen. I have learned a great deal from listening carefully. Most people never listen.
~Ernest Hemingway

It's been nearly six years since I went back to college. First my Bachelors Degree and now my Masters. Like most things in life, we have our favorites; things to which we are fascinated by and drawn to. For me, I had favorite classes. I enjoyed and looked forward to my classes in communications. Right now, I am completing another communication class that has really opened my eyes and my ears to the way people communicate; verbal, written, nonverbal (body language), tone, tone levels and facial expressions. I realized this information can provide the confidence and insight one needs to have a successful, productive conversation. Understanding the other person(s) can also give you a bit of an edge to guide the conversation. Unfortunately, not everyone understands this.

Yesterday, I spent the day (after listening to my favorite football team win) listening. I mean really paying attention without interjecting. I listened to conversations between members of my family, and anyone I walked by who was talking. No, I was not eaves dropping. It was really part of the research for a paper, that I was writing for my communications class. I spent time actively listening, and trying to understand the importance listening plays in daily activities, conversations and interactions. It's harder than you think, because the world is an awfully noisy place. For many of us that noise comes from within. In many of the cases I witnessed yesterday, I noticed that before the first person completed their statement, the receiver was already beginning to speak. Usually louder; as if to drown out the first person's words. There was no real listening going on there. It appeared that after the first few words, the receiver was already preparing their statement and not hearing all of the information from the speaker. I noticed this again and again and again... No wonder there are so many communication difficulties in the world.

In the song Daylight Again, Crosby, Stills Nash & Young sing, “When everyone's talking and no one is listening, How can we decide.” This gets right to the heart of the problem and they knew it forty years ago. The one big change (perhaps not for the better) in our culture is that people seem to have stopped listening. Do we all feel that what we have to “say” is so important, that other people's points of view no longer matter? What does that say about mutual respect? What happens when you have a world full of that? We are now able to send words around the planet at light speed and the internet is filled to overflowing with opinions and attitudes. How many of us are really listening, honestly, critically and rationally to what other people are saying? How many of us prepare our answers in advance to someone's ideas, points of view and thoughts, long before we hear all the information?

In the movie Children of a Lesser God, James Leeds (played by William Hurt) said to William (John Limnidis), “Language skills can be dangerous, so use a little common sense.” Just because we can communicate, doesn't mean we know how to communicate well. The one lesson I have learned about communication is that it isn't just about talking, it is really about listening as well. More importantly it is about trying to understand someone else's point of view. That takes work and when we don't listen and only talk.... well that's usually the fountainhead of conflict.

How well will you “listen” to others today?

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